BRUSSELS ā Xavier Bettel is a jaunty, sharply-dressed man with a keen sense of humor who leads one of Europe's smallest but richest countries. But on Thursday, Luxembourgās first openly gay prime minister looked deflated and disappointed.
Not for the first time, Bettel felt compelled to speak out in public about his sexuality. This time because of a new law in Hungary that bans the sharing of content about LGBT issues with minors. Hungary says the law protects children. Critics say it links homosexuality with pedophilia.
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āBeing gay is not a choice. You know, I did not just wake up one day after watching some advertising or Modern Family and just become gay. That is not how life is. Life is⦠it is in me. It is not something I chose,ā Bettel said, ahead of a European Union summit.
āAccepting yourself is already very hard, so being stigmatized is⦠it is very far reaching,ā said Bettel, before he was due to come face to face with the driving force behind the bill, Hungarian Prime Minister Viktor Orban, around the EUās top table in Brussels.
The parliamentary bill was signed into law on Wednesday by Hungarian President Janos Ader. Widely condemned by human rights groups, it prohibits sharing content on homosexuality or sex reassignment to people under 18 in school sex education programs, films or advertisements.
Bettel, who married his husband six years ago, believes thatās out of touch with reality.
āThe most difficult thing for me was to accept myself when I realized that I was in love with this person of my sex, it was hard to say to my parents, hard to say to my family,ā Bettel said. āI see how many young people kill themselves because they do not accept that.ā
Bettel complained bitterly about the mixing of āpedophilia, of homosexuality, of pornography.ā
āI was young, I was a homosexual. I am a homosexual. I am not so young now, but I do not consider myself to be a danger,ā the 48-year-old former TV talk-show host told reporters.
āTo be nationally blamed, to be considered as not normal, to be considered as a danger for young people it is ⦠it is not realizing that being gay is not a choice. But being intolerant is a choice and I will stay intolerant to intolerance, and this will be today my fight,ā Bettel said.
Arriving at the summit, Orban ruled out withdrawing the law. He said it had already been āpublishedā and defended himself as a champion of gay rights.
āI (was) a freedom fighter in the Communist regime. Homosexuality was punished and I fought for their freedom and their rights. I am defending the rights of homosexual guys. But this law is not about them, itās about the rights of the kids and the parents,ā Orban said.
āThings need to be said. I used to have respect for Mr Orban,ā Bettel said. He said that joining the EU is not a one-way street. āEurope is not just about laws and subsidies, itās also about rights and obligations.ā
Itās not the first time Luxembourgās premier has taken a stand. At an EU-Arab League summit in Egypt in 2019, Bettel told Arab leaders that he was married to a man and would probably face capital punishment in many of their countries.
āSaying nothing was not an option for me,ā Bettel wrote later in a tweet.
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Sylvain Plazy in Brussels contributed to this report.