MIAMI-DADE COUNTY, Fla. ā Scrolling through photos of the good times is helping Eboni Preston cope with the tragic loss of her aunt, Vanessa Brown.
āWe all are suffering from this because it was senseless,ā Preston said. āI still feel like Iām dreaming because you never expect something like this, ever.ā
A celebration was planned this past Sunday for Brownās 64th birthday.
After a series of calls went unanswered, her daughter drove to Brownās Richmond Heights home on her special day.
āWhen she didnāt get an answer, she said she called the police and when she call the police, she told them, āI donāt know what exactly is going on but my momās car is here, my stepdadās car is here, I just opened the front door with my keys and I see blood,ā Preston said.
Brown had been shot to death in an apparent murder-suicide at the hands of her own husband.
āHe had killed her, and he killed himself,ā said Preston.
A once rocky marriage ended in divorce years ago, but the two were remarried last year.
Loved ones say that signs of trouble persisted, even recently.
āMy message to any woman is get out, get out at the beginning and this couldāve all been avoided had she just not went back,ā Preston said.
She and others are choosing to remember the retired longtime postal worker as a fun loving, caring person who put family first.
āShe has so much class, so much cute about herself,ā Preston said. āSheās the person you call for order and structure because thatās the way she is.ā